Is it right for us to change ourselves for the sake of others? Have you ever noticed how we change our personality, beliefs, our perception and even our smallest of habits just to accommodate that one person in our life. But is it justified to love certain specific parts of a person, the parts which are convenient to us and suits our choice.?
I’ve seen girls going on extensive diets just because their boyfriends preferred slimmer women, many of them ended up being dumped anyways. Isn’t love supposed to be above these things, to cherish and care for a person despite his/her flaws. Being in love is supposed to make you feel happy and comfortable, and not insecure about your figure or anything else as trivial as that.
If you like a girl when she is herself, happy and looking beautiful as ever, then you should accept her even when she is depressed or angry and looks like a crying mess. If a guy can’t respect your problems and be there when you need him the most, then he doesn’t love you at all. You don’t need to change for any one. A person who truly cares for you will accept all of you, the good, the bad and the ugly.
Never lose your identity for fake affection. Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen and anyone who doesn’t treat her right doesn’t deserve her at all.